I’m pretty much the definition of a cancer sign. I’m intuitive, loyal, and (highly) emotional. I can also easily retreat into my “shell” out of fear of being judged or rejected. This means not speaking up or doing something in a crowd. Even though this has been engraved in me pretty much my whole life, I’ve learned how important it is to lighten up and not take myself so seriously.
It’s okay to laugh at yourself. No one is perfect. Don’t regret not doing something that would make you happy just because you were afraid of looking silly. Have the courage to be vulnerable and let your authenticity shine! If you feel like getting out on that dance floor, get out there and be a dancing queen. If you feel like taking those blog pictures in front of everyone, work that camera! The world needs more fun and silliness!
Because I’m quite reserved by nature, it can be tough for me to put myself out there. Take this blog for example; It’s a basically one big page of vulnerability. Someone could hate my outfits or not connect with my writing, but I do it anyways. Creating for La Vie d’Ashley has become incredibly important to me, so I push all of that aside. I take pictures like no one is watching, and I write to my heart’s content.
It’s taken me thirty years to learn not to take myself so seriously, and I have to work at it every day. It may be a little daunting at times, but I think it’s worth it to try. If I can live a more positive, happy life, then why not?!
xo,
Ashley
la vie d’ashley 
Aw thanks for sharing! This totally made my day.
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Awesome message. So proud of you! 😘
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